HOPE AND HOMEWORK
The Relationship Remedy process is helpful for couples and families, including single parents, divorced co-parents, traditional and blended families. If needed, I provide parent coaching using research based, holistic tools, that helps you guide your family with a balance firmness and kindness, bringing positive changes at home and school. The graphic below is one example of a parenting process I tailor to help children identify and soothe negative experiences.
Sometimes my clients are navigating schools, courts, medical systems or difficult behavior with loved ones. In these cases, I provide strong advocacy with strategy suggestions, including high quality referrals to attorneys, therapists and drug and alcohol counselors, as needed. My experience as a mediator helps here as it combines compassion with negotiation towards objective goals.
Each situation is unique, but there are also very common relationship dynamics that we all experience that are re-learnable with skillful guidance, and your consistent effort. As we regulate our emotions better, our interactions and agreements get easier. As we honor these agreements, we build trust and heal strained relationships. Everyone participates in the homework that helps you effectively negotiate fair agreements. I provide an assessment of communication patterns and disagreements, and a plan that includes 4 parts:
1. Emotional Resolution
2. Holistic Homework
3. Communication Skills
4. Agreements and Action Steps
A MULIFACTED MODALITY
Our committed romantic relationships challenge us to clear any unresolved issues from past relationships, childhood or even at our deeper ancestral and genetic levels. Over many years as a therapist, coach & researcher, I’ve honed this process to help my clients create harmonious, high integrity relationships. I’ve integrated what is lacking from mainstream therapy and coaching into a process that is offered in private sessions, and Quantum Coach Classes. They provide both practical and multidimensional remedies.
THE HEART & SCIENCE OF CONNECTION
Things can feel very stressful, even hopeless when our relationships are strained. Healthy connections improve our physical health, mental focus and bring deep meaning to our lives. Improved relationships can even prevent costly legal disputes and custody battles. I have consistently offered communication skills since seeing my first married couple client many years ago. These and other modules are offered for anyone wanting to improve connections in any type of relationship, including families, and work teams: Courageous Conversations Class.
Private 1:1 sessions are helpful for sensitive, stuck issues and allow you to share more context to help me understand issues from each person’s perspective. Some clients have concerns about their parenting, mental health addiction, abuse or affairs. These have potentially serious repercussions for years to come and they need to safely addressed. We all deserve thoughtful, tailored solutions, and I may suggest 1:1 sessions and referrals to other professionals if needed. All sessions are held within non-judgmental and confidential appointments.
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